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Wednesday,
July 27, 2011
Living Without.......(and surviving)
Week
without Internet! And we survived!! This will get posted when
we have internet again.:)) It is interesting to note what we get
used to, and then take for granted. We so often do not give thanks
for, or even recognize, the many luxuries that we enjoy until
they are taken away for a time. This last few days we have not
had access to internet service, and it feels like an imposition.
(Well actually, Julie did get a chance to go down and log on via
Claudia's ethernet cable on Saturday, and connect for a few minutes,
but the wireless access is down.) We were reminded that just a
few years ago we did not even have such a thing! ! ...and wonder
of wonders, we survived!! Then and now! Claudia tells us that
this lapse of wi-fi happens about once a year, but usually is
quickly attended to by 'Orange', the Malian phone and internet
provider. She still has service to her main computer But there
is no wi-fi. I know, it doesn't make any sense to me either!)
In any case, Paul went to the Orange office in person and reported
the problem on Friday, and we have called every day since then,
but have received no service yet. Sunday we were told that we
were not even 'on the list', and yesterday morning they said they
would so everything in their power to come out and get it going
for us “today”. As of 10pm last night (their quitting
time, we are told) they had not come. It got me thinking about
some of the other things that we have gotten used to not having
here in Mali that we used to take for granted. Here's a list to
start you thinking as well.
-No
hot water from the faucet. We heat a pan of water on the stove
for washing dishes (at least when we have meat or eggs and want
to do a more thorough cleansing.) And we have learned to take
our showers in the afternoon, when the sun has warmed the wall
and therefore the water in the pipes. (that works for one shower
at a time...when the sun shines!) --
No
reliable refrigeration. We are doing better with electricity right
now, thanks to additional solar panels having been installed by
Anco and crew, but our little counter-top refrigerator barely
chills food to 60*F and food does not keep long. so daily shopping
is necessary.
--No
spare tire. It is really more about living in a city than about
Western & 3rd world differences, but it is not safe to leave
an unlocked spare tire in the back of your pick-up truck downtown!
This truth we proved last Sunday when we were relieved of our
spare tire while we were in the English speaking Worship Service
downtown. Live and learn!
--No
air-conditioners. Not even a swamp cooler! Swamp coolers are basically
big boxes with a fan that pulls air in thru water saturated filter
panels, and blows it into your house. The evaporative cooling
that takes place reduces the incoming air temperature by 20 or
30 degrees, and is especially effective in the driest months--
which are also the hottest. One of those is a possibility for
next January perhaps. We will see!
--No
internet. (or S..L....O......W & spor...a..dic In...t.er...n...e....t........)!!
Usually we have to go downstairs to the Boys' family room to get
online via the wifi that we have here at H2tNI base, but it is
slow, especially during the business workday, and often goes off
entirely for a few minutes or a few hours. Sometimes the “off””
cycle is a few days, like this week.
--No
language skills! We are slowly learning Bambara—at least
it seems slow to us when we are trying to communicate with the
boys or our cooks and the neighbors. Fortunately, they are patient
with us, and try very hard to understand our halting sentences.
--NO
family nearby. We do miss our families, both our blood related
family (read “grandchildren!”:-)), and our friends
and church family. It is hard to be away from them as they are
celebrating anniversaries, birthdays and holidays. Ginn and Garrick
are celebrating 14 years of marriage TODAY! (Happy Anniversary
you two, Im not sure if this will get posted today, but we are
thinking about you.) And Heather and Stuart are at the big 10
this year,(Thanks for the fb chronicle of the weekly gifting,
Heather. It helps us to celebrate with you. and makes us proud
to have such a son and daughter, I might add) We love seeing pictures
and the occasional skype date we set up with them but it is not
the same as getting hugs from tiny arms and hearing “I love
you, Mimi”.
There
are more things that we have gotten “used to” here,
like eating from community dishes while flies are buzzing around
you, Running to shut doors and windows when the wind suddenly
picks up and a storm pours over the horizon, walking on gritty
floors (Cause there is no way to keep the grit out—you notice
when the floor is clean and no grit!), trying to converse and
not being able to because we speak different languages, living
with one bathroom (and counting ourselves lucky to have one all
to ourselves), remembering to bite down gently on the rice, because
there are sometimes pieces of grit or small stones in it,(they
do sort and clean it as thoroughly as they can, but there are
still little pieces that get thru.).
Tomorrow
I want to post the other side-- stay tuned. And meanwhile, ponder
and go back and consider the many things that you have that you
can be thankful for. Be blessed and count your blessings! Mim
in MAli
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Tuesday,
July 26, 2011
Tuesday as a Holiday-Swimming, Dinner out...
Tuesday
Holiday! Tuesday was a special day all around. For starters, we
had invited 5 'young men' to the Heisey apartment for an American
pancake breakfast. Though really, the only thing American were
the pancakes. We served them with Malian honey, mango syrup, and
fresh (made the day before) mango-orange jam/marmalade. We also
had fresh mango and bananas, of course. :)) Paul, Tierno, Adama,
Matthias, and Yakou (Ray) sat at the table while Julie and I kept
the pancakes coming. I started the first platter of pancakes with
Ray, so that he could show them how we top them with butter and
syrup, etc, considering Paul was the only other one who'd eaten
pancakes before. The platter got the whole way around, and everyone
had two or three to start. The last one to get them was Tierno
(our night guard here), and he hardly touched them for a while.
I was getting worried that maybe he didn't like them, and what
else did I have to feed him?! My fears were short lived however.
Towards the end of breakfast, Paul and Adama were teasing him
about eating 7 pancakes already...Paul was really counting...
and then he took two more. I told them a mom or gramma likes to
see boys enjoying her cooking, so that was a good thing! (I found
out later that Tierno had gone to bed at 6 o'clock and had just
been wakened to come over for breakfast—he was still ½
asleep at the beginning! I think 4 satisfied young men left our
house that morning, and I'm hoping to be able to do this for them
again soon.
The
next part of our day was also special. Eva Durst, the young Austrian
lady who came to work with the children this summer, returns home
July 25th. She gave the children a special treat as her going-away
gift, a day of swimming in the pool at Kangaba Campment. That
is a rare treat for our kids. The pool at Kangaba is a lovely
L-shaped jewel of refreshingly cool, sapphire blue water wrapped
around a restaurant pavillion. It is shaded on 3 sides, including
the shallow end, but the foot of the “L” was in full
sun, and that ell was deep enough to dive into, much to the boys'
delight. One adventurous 15-year-old did a back-flip that earned
him a serious scrape and bruise on his lower back. (Whereby the
lesson to be careful was learned much better than any lecture
from Mimi. LOL) Eva also brought some oranges and a packet of
cookies for a snack much to everyone's delight. It was a wonderful
3+ hours of enjoyment for the children, not to mention it was
refreshing for us as well.
Kangaba
is a lovely African safari style resort camp set at the base of
a small rocky ridge, and just 20 minutes away from where we live.
There are cabins available to rent (think rustic cabins like at
Cowans Gap State park--ask the Reynolds or Hance families, if
you've not been there). They offer horse riding (at least we saw
the small corral:)), an observation tower, open air restaurant,
drinks bar and a gift shop. They also have lovely grounds with
quite a selection of botanicals; many of the trees and shrubs
were nicely labeled for us. I doubt if the boys gave much thought
to the setting, but we appreciated its beauty. When we need a
get-away, we think that we might plan to make a night or two there
a mini vacation.
We
finished off the day as guests at the home of another missionary
family here. When Julie invited us for dinner, she asked if we
had any foods allergies or foods we dislike. We said “no,
but we would appreciate not having rice and sauce”. She
readily understood and chuckled, promising that she could arrange
something else. (How much we have learned to appreciate the variety
of foods that have been our daily rations in the States. Variety
is available here, but not on the budget that we operate under
to feed 25 or 26 people everyday. More on that in a later post.)
So we had delicious lasagna dinner with chocolate fondue as a
finishing touch, accompanied by thought provoking (English) conversation.
Wonderful! It was a weekday that felt like a Sunday. Be a blessing
to someone today. Mim in Mali
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Wednesday,
July 20, 2011
Up & Gardening at 5:00 am
Up
and Gardening by 5AM! This week has been interesting, to say the
least. On the third try at getting someone to train as gardener
and general all-around worker here, we have a young man who is
working well.. Adama is a former street boy who knows what it
is like on the street and seems to understand that a paying job
requires a full day's work-- tho in truth, I don't think we have
done a full 8 hours any day yet. Part of that is the reality that
the rain interrupts, or the ground is too wet to work, or we don't
have the supplies that are needed to do more fencing, or.....
whatever. Partly it is because, at this point, either Ray or I
have had to be with him to assign a task and then work with him
to show him how we want that task to be completed. He has been
a willing learner and we are working on getting a list of the
repetitive jobs that he can do each day when we are not available.
He understands little English and so we communicate slowly, using
hand motions and a mixture of Bambara and English, but that is
improving as well. We also have a group of almost-young-men who
are full of energy and fueled by testosterone. These guys need
useful work to do that will allow them to show their strength
and expend some of that energy. I had talked with them about helping
to plant some more sweet corn in the upper area of the base, where
weeds and grasses coexisted with a bumper crop of rocks. We began
the process of clearing the ground one evening but had to quit
at dark. Flexing their muscles and flapping their shirts over
bare chests, they announced that they would get up at 6am (remember
that they usually have to be called to get up at 7) to complete
the work the following day. So I agreed to get up also and have
the tools available. Because of many little hands that are used
to taking whatever knife or tool they see and using it to dig
in the ground, or cut a piece of wood they have picked up, or
chop against the rocks that litter the area, we have kept the
gardening tools in our apartment so that they don't walk off on
the little feet attached to those little hands. We are also working
on the concept of respect for property, and proper use of things.
That is not a cultural issue so much as it is an issue of lack
of training. I dare say you have had to do similar training with
your little ones. It just happened at a younger age with yours,
perhaps. Crawling out of bed at 6am (I am NOT an early riser myself,
and my bed is still a mattress on the floor) we got the tools
out to be available for these 3 teenage boys. I glanced out the
kitchen window and wondered if I just hadn't noticed how huge
the weed pile was last night. And had we made that big of a wall
of rocks along th edge? The area looked much better by morning
light. Maybe there was hope for a garden there after all! In just
a few minutes Ray came back and announced that they had already
finished the job!! Turns out that the 3 of them had gotten up
at 4:30, washed and dressed, and were attacking the garden plot
before 5 o'clock. What good bragging rights they had that day!
Surprising Mimi and Yakou, showing off that they were strong and
macho workers, and gaining attention for completing a job well
ahead of expectations. We soon hoed and raked an area and planted
three 50foot long rows of corn, and in front, a row of green beans.
Now to get some more “misi-bo” to boost the rocky
ground's nutrient level and we should have a good stand of vegetables
for this summer and fall. Thanks again to our MOST TEAM for sending
the seeds to us. God reminded us of the principle that a provision
of more than enough means He has supplied some to share with others
when we asked Anco and Ewien (Dutch missionaries who were putting
in the solar panels for us) if they could use some. Anco received
it with gratitude, commenting that they had actually been looking
for some. God reminded me that He supplies for all of us, His
children. What a neat thing to be a part of that chain of provision.
So today, look around at your “more-than-enough”s
and see whose need God may be intending to supply thru you. I
know you are richly blessed! Be a blessing as well! Mim in Mali
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Monday,
July 18, 2011
Adding solar panels to Children's home
(Still
learning how to post- with apologies to commenters. I don't know
how to reply. So Sorry!!--also, here is a late post--this was
in drafts and I just realized it hadn't been posted.:(()............Earlier
this month a Dutch missionary couple came and completed the installation
of additional solar panels for our system here. While Ray worked
with Anco and his assistant on the installation, Anco's wife,
Ewien, and I took a walk up to the top of the little ridge behind
us and did some photo shoots. (Her camera makes me a little jealous,
I have to tell you.;)) We again met a man named Ibrahim who lives
up there with his family. (picture in front of his house with
his children Anco & Ewein have been working in W Africa for
severl years, and like Brendon Shank in Liberia, have been working
to see the promise of solar power brought to various applications.
We are thankful to be on the receiving end of their expertise.
Here is a link to the video Ewien shot to chronicle this installation
process.
I
have posted a few photos on FB and will try to copy them here
for you, as well. ....Thankfully, we have now had 24/7 electricity
for several days. That means that we have fans and lights at any
time of the day or night, and our little refrigerator now keeps
food at below 60*-- there is even a little skim of ice on the
frezer section at times!! YIPPEEE! (24/ 7 electricity is another
blessing that we have so long taken for granted, is it not?)....
We are indeed blessed at the hand of a loving God. But we are
also blessed to be a blessing-- not to spend it all on ourselves.....**
Hoping that you will find new ways to acknowledge your blessings
and to be a blessing today. Mim in Mali
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Sunday,
July 17, 2011
Julie's version of the Carwarshed Restaurant
Thought
that you would enjoy this version as well. And she had a picture
on her camera! July 11, 2011 - Carwashed Restaurant by Julie Heisey
on Friday, July 15, 2011 at 3:44pm Yesterday (Sunday) has kinda
become our day off. We're getting involved with the Christian
Fellowship circle that meets every Sunday evening for a 6:00 service,
and we make it a day by going to the American Club for the afternoon.
This time I swam in the pool for a while, got a little exercise,
and then layed in the sun for a while too (: Anyways, we were
planning to get a little something to eat at the small restaurant
there, but it closed when we thought it opened lol. Soo... we
decided to be a little adventurous and try a Malian restaurant
we'd passed on our way there. We pulled up, and walked into what
we were pretty sure was the restaurant... but it had not chairs
or tables. Before we could walk out and leave, the owner came
running from across the street and was talking to us in Bambara,
and the only word we could understand was 'sandwich'. We couldn't
just walk in and walk out, so we agreed to get a sandwich, and
a minute later, he had his helpers bringing chairs and a table
from across the street. We were thinking, why in the world were
the chairs and table across the street? Not till we left and took
a look, did we see that across the street was the local carwash.
Of course!!! Take the furniture over to the carwash to get a sunday
cleaning! lol. We tried to ask for a menu when we sat down, but
couldn't communicate (which is still as frustrating as ever!).
We managed to get drinks, Fanta for mom , Coke for dad, and a
Sprite for me (I really wanted to take my cool glass bottle home,
but they charge you more if you take the bottle, oh well) Because
there wasn't much else we could do, we agreed to just try the
only thing we could communicate to the guy, a sandwich. When he
brought it in to us, it actually wasn't that bad. It had meat,
sliced veggies, and mayo on it. We're pretty sure the meat was
ground beef, and it has some good seasoning in it. It was warm,
and the veggies were cold from being in the fridge, but we still
prayed that God would protect us from anything harmful. Soooo,
interesting experience, but I think we'll go to a familiar restaurant
next time lol.
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Monday,
July 11, 2011
Restaurant Seats in a Car Wash??
Restaurant
seats in the Car wash:)) People here at Healing2TheNations are
all used to seeing me in a long skirt, or with a “pagne”
(simple length of material) wrapped around my waist, so when I
came home from an excursion to Bamako in blue jeans and a nice
tee-shirt, Fanta made a comment in Bambara that made Paul chuckle
before translating for me. “Tonight Mimi is a lady. She
is not a gramma.” What a nice compliment to be given! (We
had also noticed that Fanta dressed differently when her husband
came home after being away for several months. LOL) All in all
it was another “experience” day. We have been having
some discipline issues with several of the boys--(Yes, boys are
boys in Yirimadio as well as in Shippensburg!) so we're looking
forward to a little time away to just relax. Our trip to town
was our Sunday holiday, of sorts. We spent some time at the American
Club in the afternoon before going to the Worship Service that
is held (in English!) in a church downtown on Sunday evenings.
We have enjoyed getting to know other missionaries who are here
in Mali thru this English speaking group, and look forward to
that time together when we can get there. It was thru this group
that we discovered the American Club here in Bamako. The American
Club is a nice place to relax, with a pool, sand volleyball and
tennis courts, a nice pavilion, and a small restaurant. We found
we were able to join it as Americans in Mali for about the cost
of 2 nights in a hotel, so we have afforded ourselves that luxury.
Ray and Julie spent time in the pool and I relaxed in the lounge
with my computer. I had intended to catch up on my blog, and send
it out with pictures before joining them in the warm pool water—Florida
warm, not PA swimming pool warm! It was a good plan, except for
the fact that there was no internet service. When we got home
we discovered that the lack of service was not a problem of the
Club's wireless connection but apparently of the whole server
for Bamako, as they had no service here at the base, either. Also,
Ray had come back from the bathhouse to tell me that there was
no water on in the bathroom. That meant there would be no showering
to wash off after a swim, and the little plastic kettle with a
spout, which we have come to recognize as part of an outdoor latrine's
sanitary facilities, was in place beside the commode. Such is
life in Mali! :) Our intent was to get a snack or salad at the
Club restaurant, but rather than opening at 4pm, we found that
4 pm is the CLOSING time for the kitchen on Sundays. Julie was
hungry after having swum 20 laps (it is a small pool!) and the
3 oranges and a handful of peanuts that we had brought with us
didn't satisfy her. OK! We did see a little Malian Restaurant
just a block or so away as we came in, so we thought maybe we
would be brave enough to try it, or at least look at it as we
drove by. That too was an experience! Arriving in front of the
building that proclaimed itself a Restaurant, we parked along
the street, being careful as we got out of the car to stay on
the curbing and not step down into the open sewer that runs beside
most streets here. (With the rainy season in full swing,there
is a good quantity of water flowing, so its not too odorous.)
The music was blaring, and the lights were on in the little building
that housed the eatery. Inside the doorway was an open tilefloored
space, where we saw various pots and pans stacked on a bench to
one side. Before we had time to make a decision to leave, the
proprietor came from across the street and greeted us. With the
limited vocabulary that we have in Bambara or French, and his
equally “small, small” English, we agreed that a sandwich
would be what we would like to eat. He exited and crossed the
street to the small car-wash establishment, quickly gathered up
6 plastic deck chairs and headed back toward us. Meanwhile, we
stepped into the interior room and looked around in surprise.
Yes, the music was on, and a small TV was also playing from a
shelf mounted high on the end wall, but except for a single corner
counter and a small refrigerator that seemed to be unplugged,
there was no furniture in the room. It was clean, but empty! Before
we could process all this, he was back with the chairs and a matching
plastic table, wiped them off with a rag and offered us a seat.
Thru the window Ray saw a young lady bring a baguette from next
door and come back into the courtyard out front. We asked for
a Coke, Fanta (the soft drink, not our cook LOL), and a Sprite
(usually a safe bet for something to drink- sanitary, if not cold)
and began to wonder if we should just drink our sodas and do without
supper. The sodas, which he selected from the bottles stacked
in the freezer compartment of the small refrigerator, were pleasantly
cold. The young lady came in and took a pan of something from
the refrigerator and I (wondering what in the world we were getting
into) followed her outside. She had split the baguette, spread
something onto one side of it, and was spooning fresh vegetables
from the refrigerated pan on top of that. We decide it was too
late to back out and sat drinking our sodas while we waited. The
proprietor soon returned with a platter of the 3 sandwiches, each
on its own piece of tin foil. What we had was a very acceptable,
hoagie type sandwich, seasoned ground beef (we think!) with wedges
of fresh tomatoes, onions and green peppers, on fresh french bread.)
We left there, marvelling, and drove downtown to enjoy a worship
service.
Beside
the regular crew, there were 3 missionary families from out of
country who were on holiday in Bamako. We also had a few minutes
to shop at their small Christian bookstore where we selected 5
or 6 books, which are in the Bambara language, to bring back here
with us. God has already used one of those books this morning--
but that is another story. By the way, we get more fish to eat
here than I usually worked into the menu at home in PA. However,
as you can see from the picture of Julie at our kitchen table,
it is a little different than Mrs Paul's fishsticks of fish fillets.lol
Usually we are eating it out of the community dish with 5 or other
hands dipping in. This day we decided to take some rice up to
our apartment and add a salad. This whole fish was the piece we
were given. Count your many blessings and don't forget to thank
God for all His many provisions for you. Be blessed and be a blessing!
Mim in Mali
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Sunday,
July 10, 2011
Life with a house full of boys!
We
continue to experience life with the boys (and Sarata, our one
little resident girl. Fanta is her mother, and the family lives
in the 2 rooms just below us, adjacent to the kitchen area.) If
you have grown up in a family of more than 3 or 4, you will realize
some of the interactions that we face. Big boys teasing little
boys, little boys trying to mimic their elders, big boys testing
each other, and all of them vying for attention one way and another.
There is the normal struggle to see who will be in charge, but
in addition there is the reality that many of these boys have
already on their own, on the street, which is not always a friendly
environment. They are wise in the ways of manipulation and coercion.
But they have also acknowledged their need of a saviour and all
have made a verbal commitment to follow God, however that translates
into everyday life. They also are looking for love and affirmation,
as we all are. It is a delicate balance to supply what they need--
room to grow and mature, while still enough boundaries to give
some structure. We need to remember to laugh and play as well
as do correcting.
We
also welcomed another "boy" into our family group here.
Matthias is a young man who comes from Austria, and plans to be
here about 3 months. The picture of me holding a tray of banana
men with mustaches is a treat I made in honor of his coming. Banana
1/2s with a squiggly pretzel mustache and peanut eyes. It was
fun! Sunday is a day with very little on the schedule. The boys
need to do their own laundry sometime during the day, but otherwise
they have a day to rest and play. Julie and I played a game of
Quirkle with Paul and Saloum- 2 games actually. Then I went to
check on a couple of new plantings that we did this week, and
spread some “misibo” (well rotted cow marure) that
Paul had gotten for me. On the way to spread it I got distracted
by 3 little ones doing their laundry on the top of the concrete
septic tank. (Sounds a little bizarre, but it is a solid concrete
platform to stand on or alongside for that chore.. I stayed to
work alongside 4 of the boys as they were did their washing. This
weekly chore that they are responsible for, is done in rather
primitive surroundings, compared to what you probably have to
work with, but it is enough!. Each one is given a cup or so of
soap powder and it is up to them to get the job done sometime
on Sunday. There is a garden hose with a good supply of water,
a large metal tub, a laundry scrubboard, as well as a (new) clothes
line and various railings and concrete places to hang the washed
clothes on to dry. The sun does the solar drying work. As you
might imagine, some do better than others, and so I was trying
to show them ways that I have found that work to get the clothes
clean. I try to use the washboard as little as possible because
it is terribly rough on the clothes, but Karim showed me that
it does enable him to get his pants cleaner than my hand work
did. Live and learn! Another of the boys seemed to leave me to
do his laundry when I had offered to help. Not so! He had gone
to take a clean garment to put on and bring back the dirty pair
of pants that he was wearing, so that both sets could get clean
today. Another set of blessings to count: Automatic washing machines
and dryers: can you conceive of it?? Machines that leave your
clothing clean, dry and fluffy! Also, plenty of clothes, so that
you do not need to wash one thing and then go and change so you
can wash the clothes that you have on. Count your many blessings
today. And be a blessing to others as you go. Mim in Mali
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Friday,
July 8, 2011
Julie's African Braids
Julie's
African Braids by Julie Heisey on Friday, July 8, 2011 at 9:06pm
OH. MY. LANTA! I have a whOLe new respect for all of the girls
that I see walking around everywhere with these crazyily (new
word) designed braids. It hurts a LOT! I didn't think it was really
going to be such intense pain, but when she takes a little section
of your hair and braids it right on your head, it's definitely
intense. I actually cried on the third or fourth braid, and was
thinking, 'oh my gosh, why in the world would anyone pay someone
to do this!' lol. And, I have, and probably will have, a headache
for a while. Bebe, the name of the lady that did my braids for
me, did one half of my head, then the other half, then did the
whole back/bottom from left to right. She did it so that it pulls
up into a pony tail, with those colored plastic bands to hold
them in place at the end of the braid and also right where it
starts away from my head. It took 2 hours and 12 minutes for her
to do it all, with a few short breaks (like 2 or 3 minutes). But,
my experience wasn't completely filled with pain lol. They served
me some millet drink that one of the girls made as an afternoon
snack. Later, when we'd moved outside of their yard to do the
2nd half of my hair, a lady came by selling what I think were
frufrus (it's basically fried dough, sometimes with stuff in it,
this one had chopped up onions and boiled eggs) and Bebe gave
me one. (: It was really really good, besides giving me a break
because Bebe had to take time to eat hers lol. Just after that,
another lady finished making her tea that she'd started when I'd
gotten there, and served me a little cup. They serve them in little
'shot' glasses, and you're supposed to slurp it as loudly as you
can lol. It was good and sweet, and a little distraction from
the pain... for a few seconds. I've gotta say though, despite
how painful it was, I'm glad I went through with it and got it
all done. I don't think I'm gonna do it again, maybe, maybe not,
but I'm certainly glad for the experience.
There
you have it, right from the mouth of the one who is hurting!!
Do any of you ladies remember “curlers”??-those plastic
cylinders that we used to wrap our hair around at night, attach
with bobby pins or little plastic picks, and (try to)sleep on
to have big curls? Ouch!!—that gives me a headache just
remembering. Oh, the things we do for fashion!! It was a lovely
way to make a onnection with a neighbor though, I discovered that
2 of my near neighbors are named Miriam (or a variation thereof),
which I told them is my given name. Now when I pass their stand
in the local market, I am greeted with cries of “Meriam,
Meriam!” and we greet one another. We know each other –
and that is good. Again on Saturday I went with Fanta, our cook,
to that open air market down at the main road. Always before we
have walked down the hill the kilometer or so that it is, purchase
our supplies and trudge back up the hill , I with my big, red,
HALE REAL ESTATE shopping bag slung over my shoulder, and Fanta
with her bucket full of food balanced on her head. This time we
drove down in the little pick-up truck with Eva Durst and Matthias,
the 2 short-termers at H2TNI. I wanted to get a large quantity
of mangoes, as I know that their season is coming to an end, and
carrying that extra load back up hill, in the morning heat was
more than I wanted to tackle.
Another
reason for taking the truck was to get Fanta going a little earlier.
I wanted to be early at the meat merchant to see if I could get
the tenderloin. The Malian people seem to prefer the combination
of meat, bone and fatty pieces instead of just the leaner cuts
that we prefer. I have watched as a thick sirloin chop disappeared
under the machete type knife the butcher wields, whacked into
bite sized pieces, bone and all, then accompanied by a select
handful of other pieces that we would probably disdain to use.
He had to be convinced that I wanted only that fat-less meat;
the lean piece is not asking for anything special in their eyes.
It is much better in my eyes however, so hopefully it is a win-win
situation. If the merchant realizes that I will be a regular customer
for that piece, maybe I can get him to save it for me in the future.
We will see! Blessing for today's counting?? More than enough!
Food, family, friends and neighbors. Be blessed and be a blessing!
Mim in Mali
A
few Pictures
Here
are a few more pictures for you to taste a bit of what we are
tasting and seeing. Fanta making supper, Julie hangin up our clothes
on the line Ray put up-- a real upgrade from trees and bushes
or the concrete rooftop as a drying rack, to be sure. It is midnight
here now-- I must turn in and get some sleep. I am planning to
get up early to go to market,(with one of our cooks, Fanta, who
you see making onion sauce for our rice,) I hope to catch the
butcher before he sells the loin from his piece of hanging meat,
and purchase that "skinny piece of meat". Be blessed
and count your many blessings..
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Saturday,
July 2, 2011
Gardening in Soil and Soul - Mali style
The
rains have continued to come, often with fierce sweeping winds,
but they have also come gently a few times. Today we got a gentle
rain, and not a great amount. Two nights ago we had deluge! It
rained long and hard for several hours and in the morning there
were 5 inches in the bucket that I had left sitting on the porch.
That is a LOT of RAIN!!--and no one seemed to think it at all
remarkable. Does that tell you anything about what we are in for
in the coming months??!?!? --they do call it the rainy season.
Gardeners are at work all around us. I can look to the west in
the early morning and see a neighbor tending a large garden plot
on that side, or lean over the wall at the other side of our base
and see the soil outside our wall being tilled and planted. Up
the hill we are beginning to see neat rows emerging from the ground
as the maize comes up in those gardens. Seven year old Bakary
had shown me several days ago where the “kaba”(ears
of maize) was hanging in the protection of our truck shelter's
roof peak. (We think that he is about seven-- they often do not
know their age or birth date, so Claudia has assigned a birthday
based on when they came into the family here.) It was still a
surprise to see him out with Daouda planting a little patch of
maize. They had carefully weeded and tilled the soil by hand,
then planted their little handful of seed and placed a protective
ring of stones and concrete pieces around it.
Joseph, one of our “not-yet-a-man-18-year-olds” (that's
another story, lol), had planted a stretch of maize about 2 weeks
ago, and I wondered about it, but didn't give it too much thought.
He had not removed any of the stones or trash that littered the
ground, merely planting seed between them But here are 7 and 11
year old street boys who know how to save and plant life-giving
seed, and they go DO it, all on their own initiative!. I was awed
again by this demonstration of the sharp reality for these children.
Theirs has been a subsistence existence. I am even more anxious
to be blessing them and to be able to share with them what I have
learned about gardening and growing things over the years, as
well as the soul lessons gleaned from that gardening knowledge.
Doris Foust, Connie McCarty, Gerry Matre & I did a series
several years ago that we called “Lessons in Soil &
Soul”- (do you remember them, ladies?) They will be applied
here for sure, better as I learn the language.
I have gotten my fingers dirty, too. With the help of one and
another of the older boys, we have prepared 2 plots and planted
corn, green beans, cucumbers, squash and eggplant. We planted.
God has watered abundantly!! Now we need to prepare a place that
will not get too wet, and I will hope to soon get some tomatoes
in the ground. My attempts to start tomatoes in tin cans on our
concrete roof deck were not successful, although we have gotten
a sprouting mango seed to push upright and grow!! I also took
the initial plot that I was planning for a garden and have converted
it into a compost bed for this year. The soil there was the equivalent
of hard, red Georgia clay over bedrock lol, and needs some improving,
so we are teaching about compost—(NO plastic, aii yi-yiii!.)
:))
We
saw what looked like mint tea being sold at the market, so I bought
a bundle and have tried to start a patch. It is slow going and
only 1 piece has grown--(if you know mint, that is hard to believe,
isn't it?) I will get some more, and maybe another kind, and make
several patches. When the boys start using it for tea, I want
to make sure it does not all get ripped out.
The
boys are growing wonderfully. We have had some confrontations,
to be sure-- but that is not unusual or unexpected for a house
full of boys. We are encouraged by the response to firm but loving
discipline. Just like in your home, set boundaries will be tested...and
tested...and tested. When the fence does not move they can lean
against it with confidence that it will hold them securely. So
it is everywhere. Some of the “fences” that Claudia
had built here had fallen into disrepair in the last little while
and are being re-established and strengthened. And it is good.
Wherever
you are, in your family, in your soul garden! Be blessed and be
a consistent blessing.
Mim
in Mali
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Friday,
July 1, 2011
Bambara Braids, Babies and (green) Beans
IYesterday
Ray had his “7/20 Prayer for our Valley” tee shirt
on, and one of the boys wanted to know about it. We were able
to read it in English, “7pm ('that's tan ni kononton,) Ju-ly--don't
have that one down yet --twenty('mugan') to 7am-('wolonfila').
A b-i-g gathering('bon', 'many people'--with arms spread wide).
All churches, prayer for our valley, (our 'Yirimadio',) in America”
and make enough of an interpretation that they understood what
it was about—I think :)) Then I reminded them that it was
much like the prayer and worship event that most of them had attended
about 3 weeks ago here in Bamako, on the International Day of
Prayer. And since Paul walked in at that point he was able to
translate for me, so I'm pretty sure they got that part. We are
beginning to be able to really communicate. We get our little
notebooks out and try to say it in Bambara; they smile and nod,
and rattle off a response that we try to decipher. We have learned
that just because someone smiles and says 'yes', there is absolutely
no assurance that they really have understood you at all! They
are being polite according to their cultural guidelines, to make
you happy, and however frustrating that may be to us, we have
to understand and try to honor that cultural difference. We feel
we are really lucky if someone will be bold enough to make the
correction to our halting question or statement, and say it back
to us in a full sentence so that we can learn more about the Bambara
grammar pieces that don't match up to our American English. Any
of you who have tried to learn another language will understand
that part, I am sure. Several of our close circle have learned
to do that service for us. Ray told us where Eva Durst, the young
Austrian who is here with us for the summer, had gone to have
her hair done, so Julie and I went with our cameras to chronicle
the event. There Eva was in the courtyard, sitting on a rug on
the hard packed ground, while our neighbor was tightly braiding
each section into neat 'corn-rows'. They asked Julie when she
is going to get her hair done, and she is considering it, tho'
Eva says (in English, to us) that it HURTS!! A LOT!!. But she
does look adorable, and she won't have to mess with her hair for
a couple of weeks if she chooses to let the braids in that long.
Makes for a simple shampooing job! When we were leaving our base
to go find Eva, another neighbor called hello, so I thought that
I would walk back that way and greet them. I was immediately handed
the roly-poly little baby, Adama, who delighted us all by laughing
and cooing as I held him. What a great ice breaker God has provided
us when He made babies and mothers. Everybody can speak that language!
I must go and talk to them again-- and soon.
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